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Ello people!!I am not gonna be able to update my blog for awhile since I am going away for holidays..As you know I don't have much in my blog as I am sort of new with this,but hopefully it will get better when I get back..:)bubye...kisses to my love

I was realy bored and didn't know what to do next with my blog..so heres something I just painted with my computer..a guitar and all sorts of music from it:P

I used to think that I could not go on

I run and run as fast as I can afraid that I can't hide,
the days go by and as the clock ticks I realise that I am right where I started
I look in the mirror and what i see is not pleasant
A shattered life, a broken heart was all that I could think of
I called for help but no one would hear
I break into pieces but manage to fix myself up for a short while
broken,I walk my journey
My bruises don't fade
My tears dry on its own
I wake up every day teary eyed hoping for a miracle
and today I realise I got mine,I found my miracle,a cure for life....and it was you!

Youth all over the world get into drugs when life is unbearably harsh for them.People don't usually commit suicide now..not that they should!Just that usage of drugs is a slow process for death but suicide is almost instant,or would take just a little while.So,its basically the same thing,outcome wise.
Drugs and suicide are both very stupid things to do when you are depressed,stressed or what ever..The most wise thing to do when living hell is, keeping someone really close to you and sharing your thoughts and feelings with that someone.This will eventually get you fixed.:)
Well, sometimes you might not have a right person to talk to or friends who would understand you.In such cases you would completely feel lost and useless.If you are in such a situation you should understand that your mind will not be working as right as it should.You would be feeling things that you should'nt be feeling...and during such a timing taking a decision would not be right,since you won't be thinking straight.To overcome what you are feeling I think you should find a way to relax your mind.You could sleep,listen to music,take a walk or do anything right to relax your mind.by right I mean NOT DOING DRUGS!! If that doesn't work write it in a piece of paper and cry all you want.After that,freshen up and try and concentrate on something else which would cheer you up.Keep your mind fixed to it.Don't think about your problem..slowly it would vanish if nobody haunts you with it.When you are depressed and alone at a time like that, you should try to help yourself. If you don't have friends to understand you don't talk to them about it.Like I've said before console yourself to avoid the problem and to help yourself by thinking positive and even if you don't talk to your friends about whats getting you down go out with them and enjoy life a bit without taking your problem with yourself.
These words that i have just said could help you..Hope it did:)

One of the most essential skills needed in handling people and situations is assertiveness. You are assertive if you are clear in letting others know about your expectations without any anxiety or hesitation. This is one area of development to be focused on when coaching executives. Many in management sectors confuse 'assertiveness' with 'aggressiveness.'
What are some of the differences between assertiveness and aggressiveness?
If you are assertive you ask people of what you want directly and openly. There is an air of reassurance and confident around you at all times. While you do ask for your wants and preferences, you make sure to respect other people's rights and you do not expect others to know what is on your mind without expressing yourself.
If you are aggressive you try to get what you want in someway or the other and you may often cause bad feelings in others. You may resort to different tactics - request, beg, entice, persuade, manipulate or threaten as your means to get what you want. In the process you do not respect other's rights or feelings. You do not even look into situations that may get both sides what they want, such as win-win situations.
Aggressive behavior might help one to achieve immediate or short-term results but the longer outcome is a steady decline in performance due to unpopularity and non- cooperation from others who are often victims of aggressive or bullying behavior. With the result the aggressive person ends up being over stressed and depressed. Mr. Aggressive is often not supported by his colleagues and is therefore unable to reach his goals in his career.
Mr. Assertive is able to lead, direct and motivate without much of huff and puff. Since he already is clear about what he wants and is able to convince others without hurting their sentiments and feelings he is popular among employees and he gets good cooperation from his colleagues.
An assertive person is able to give unequivocal direction and leadership through his positive motivational messages to his team members. As a result he is able to achieve his goals sooner and rises up the corporate ladder easily.
Body language is an important factor of assertiveness. You could keep the following in mind if you would like to develop assertiveness:
§ A warm smile or a friendly expression shows respect to your listener
§ Maintaining eye contact shows that you are actively listening to the other person
§ A relaxed and straight stance should be adopted during communications
§ Your hands should be kept in an open position to show candidness.
Assertiveness in appropriate situations is bound to win you friends and supporters in your career and in society. Why not pop over to http://www.selfhelpwarrior.com/ for the audio version of this article along with over 2 thousand over audio articles.:)..enjoy

You are a perfect being, capable of being, doing and having anything that you can conceive. You are the creator of your own reality and the basis of this creative haven is the Law of Attraction. There are no boundaries or limitations as to what you are capable of, so why do we sometimes limit ourselves and our potential?
When we observe the world around us, one may see lots of fear, worry and powerlessness. Whether your particular struggle is financial, emotional, security, addiction, or whatever else, there are a lot of people struggling with something or another. If you're not, then you're way ahead of the pack!
The Law of Attraction has one job and one job only - to match things together. Whatever you place your attention upon in that moment you are drawing more of it to you.
As you observe the debt, as you observe the broken car, as you observe the small uncomfortable home, as you observe the lack of anything unwanted, it is in those moments that you are bringing more of it to you. The Law of Attraction does not hear or understand our language, it only understands our vibration. When you feel good you vibrate good feelings, when you feel bad you vibrate bad feelings. The Law of Attraction is hearing those vibrational feelings and responding to them, always.
Would you like to know what vibration you are currently putting out to the universe? Well take a look around you. Open your wallet. Jump inside your car. Is it wanted or unwanted? If it is unwanted then you still have work to do.
Until you take full responsibility for your life and your circumstances, you have no power to change anything. Give more focus on the things you already have that you enjoy, and give less focus and energy to the things in your life that are stressful. Just a tiny shift in the balance, maintained each day, will quickly begin to turn the tides in your favor.
This isn't hard work! It just takes repetition and a decision that feeling good means something to you. And the best part about all of this is that you are in the perfect place to begin right now. You only have "now" and so you should start practicing feeling good about something "now".
The more lighthearted, content and stress-free you feel, the more will be granted to you. As you begin to release resistance about those things that are wrong, bad and unwanted and start shifting your attention onto those things that are wanted you will find that the "wrong" things begin to fade away and you will receive more of the things that you enjoy.
This subtle shift in mindset is perhaps the most difficult thing for us to do, as it is breaking a mental habit we have kept for years and in some cases decades!
If you observe the good things beginning to flow effortlessly into your experience then that is your true breakthrough moment and will help you to build on the work you've already done.
Imagine a huge stone boulder rolling along a road... It has momentum. If you start pushing on the boulder from the other side, it doesn't immediately do what you want. You have to slow the boulder down until it eventually halts so you can start pushing it in the right direction. Then it will begin to roll slowly in the other direction.
Just wait until the boulder starts building speed! That breakthrough moment will lead to better and better times until one day you will notice that your life has taken on an entirely different characteristic. Endless experiences of prosperity, peace, happiness, love and joy will be your proclivity.
To one who is moving in a positive direction, things will only accelerate more and more in the positive direction. To one moving in a negative direction, which many of us are, things will only get worse. Begin to change your habits of focusing on the negative and focus more on the positive; have gratitude and truly feel grateful for the things you do have, and more - much more - will be given to you.(by Gary Evans)

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Try to be nice and approach as a friend.Don't go running and say hey you look so good,be mine!!The outcome of that would truly be a slap on the face or nothing at all.
How to be a friend is by being nice,smiling and helping in ways that would be neccessary and actually helpful.Or else if the person your approaching is a complete stranger, you could maybe ask what the time is.Or maybe give a simple or a sweet compliment.Well don't shout it out running behind her..be a gentleman.
Later if your lucky enough to make converstion you could take the person out.somethings you can say are>You seem like a nice person, how about a coffee?
Since we've met before how about meeting up to actually talk...ok maybe you can be funny..not ha haa funny at first but in a sweet way..
Oh..and don't do anything stupid..Think and then act!!;)

Break ups are not always easy,well sometimes in some cases they are..However for the hard ones here are somethings you can do to mend you broken heart>
1-Don't be too hard on yourself and blame all the bad on you.
2-Think wise,for everything there is a reason.
3-During such horrible situations,keep your friends close to you.
4-Don't even think your a loser.There are other fish in the sea!
5-Learn to laugh at everything that stresses you out.
6-Think of other things that would cheer you up.Party!!
7-If your feeling empty,fill it up by eating delicious food,it would change your mood.
8-Cry if you have to,and let all the sorrow out..
9-Try to always keep yourself occupied..
10-Try to meet new people.
11-Learn to live without depending on others,so that you can b happier even without such others.
12-Last but not the least,Remember you always have yourself..So Keep yourself closer to you!

Ok.So you all have complicated times with your lover, and sometimes whatever you do to make the issue right,your effort never works.Then, you get bored of the relationship and probably would wanna run away from it,but, its not always easy.Some people are easy to let go of,how ever others treat you as a magnet.Well,you know what i mean by that..So in such cases there are somehtings you can do to prevent forces against you..
First, give the person a chance to understand what really is goin on.Talk and try to make the understanding between you 2.Don't be too harsh because that would only make the person even more hurt.Give reasons, why you can't be together.
If talking doesn't work then try avoiding ..but this should be only if talking was not an available option before.Avoid taking calls just pretend as if you don't care.If your ex lover comes to see you just tell him or her that you've tried and you can't anymore and then just turn away and dont look back.Ofcourse, he or she will call and try to keep in touch for a while but they would eventually get sick of calling you and will giveup.
If the above stated does not work try to make your ex jelous.Well you did try not to hurt before but your ex didn't listen right?so if you would be happier without your past try to piss the guy or the gal off.Go out with someother person,show that your much happier than your past without your ex lover!ha ha..So by hurting your ex he or she would be so hurt that they'd wanna be away form you for awhile..and who knows in that while they might meet someone..
If nothing works then just say yes and be with him or her and be the worst girfriend or boyfriend..How do you do that?well,don't talk sweetly,pay more attention to others and other things in life,get busy,don't call even if you say you'd return a call later,go on holidays and forget to call your guy or gal,hang up the phone soon when he or she calls,give rude comments...and never ever be thankful..slowly your lover will wanna loose you and well you tried right?and just say it didn't work and that your sorry..
If there is no specific reason to break up and still you wanna break up,then try being annoying.So, annoying that the person him or herself would wanna leave you.
Good luck!